Love

I don’t like it when people say “S/he makes me happy.” It implies that your happiness is someone else’s responsibility. I lived that way for 23 years, and all it did for me was bring me heartache and make me codependent. Find a person who is happy, and adds to your internal happiness. A person whose presence means shared happiness; not the person who you can’t be happy without. You should find it within yourself to be happy for the sake of happiness, and in that moment when you’re happily doing some mundane task you’ll think of your special someone and be even happier. Don’t live in misery with bright spots. Be the brightest star in the night sky of your soul, and find the people that add to your internal galaxy.